Life has a meaning

"Those who have a 'why' to live, can bear with almost any 'how'." 

― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning

Finding an answer to the great philosophical question "What is the meaning of life?" may not be extremely necessary, you can actually survive without it. But life does get easier and lighter when you do.

It doesn't have to be a world-changing challenge or a life-saving choice, and neither does it have to be the same as everybody's... whatever makes YOU happy and complete, that is the meaning of YOUR life.

There´s not even need to think about it, you may have already found it. If you can actually enjoy your life and name everyday as your favorite day of the week, then, Congratulations! Because you already found it.

If not, and you feel that life is not being fair with you, keep reading, I´ll try my best to help you.

1. Life is not perfect. There will always be problems and there will always be times to play damsel in distress and knight without armor. Stop those thousands of expectations that are piling up in your mind right now.
There are always ups and downs, the less you expect, the more you will feel thankful and amazed at little things in life. Free yourself from those chains, be happy, be thankful, enjoy every moment. Laugh at your mistakes, overcome everything, you were born to be happy.


2. You are the #1. Don´t be afraid of yourself,    don´t be afraid of loneliness. You don't have to change to please someone. Your ideals and beliefs are as precious as those from the boy next door. Listen to yourself and make YOU the most important thing in this world, because you are. Love yourself, look for what makes you happy and learn to enjoy it. Other people's eye are just paintings in a wall, they´re not judges.



3. Love & Friendship will always come. You´re not alone. Everyone was made to complete another one, or ones. Don't stress over it, be patient. It will come either in the afternoon, tomorrow, in a month, or in two years... but it will come, and it will reach you. Dying alone is not something you'll suffer, don't get so anxious. There are people that are looking for you out there, don't risk and hurt yourself being with people who doesn't need you.



4. Don't ever lose hope. As imposible as it may sound, all people have kindness in this world.  It just happens that some of them are pretty exclusive, and may not always include you in the "Be good to him/her" list. Don't stop trusting, be happy, forgive them. The more you think about it, the more it will stick to you and hurt you. Move on, don't cling to those people, they weren't made for you. Look for people that will understand you, I can assure you there are always some. Don't close your doors.